marilyhearts ha risposto: No. Being withdrawn doesn’t mean you couldn’t have friends and it definitely doesn’t mean that you should be picked on.
ha-yehudi ha risposto: No. NONE of this is your fault.
Yeah I thought the same but my mum’s reasoning is that no one likes me because I give off the impression that I want to be alone, no one can be bothered to be my friend.
She’s always told me this and I’ve always thought it’s stupid reasoning. I still do. But I have literally not had friends since year 4 in primary school. I go to uni, a music college where I should fit in, and I still can’t make friends and I still have people treating me like shit as they did before. So I wonder if it could explain it?
Mum says it’s my fault that I’ve never had friends and it’s my fault I get pick on and people hate me. She says it’s because I’m so withdrawn - I’m withdrawn because nasty people make me so!
Is it possible she could be right? That all this is my fault?
Pro-life women, would you be able to date or marry a man who supports infanticide/abortion?
Me, personally, I know I wouldn’t.
Please give a yes or no answer and reasons why. Thank you!
I could date and marry a man who supports abortion, even though it is a difference of opinion on murder (I mean I was pro-choice before I read into it). The only thing is if I got pregnant then he must not ask me to abort our child because a) I wouldn’t and b) I would find it quite upsetting that he seems not only content but willing for me to end his child’s life.
And if he ran off and refused to pay child support or be a dad, I’d find him and twist his nuts until he did it.
put a letter in my ask
- A - Available?
- B - Birthday?
- C - Crushing on?
- D - Drink you last had?
- E - Easiest person to talk to?
- F - Favourite song?
- G - Grade i hated?
- H - Hometown?
- I - Icecream flavour?
- J - Jellybean flavour?
- K - Killed someone?
- L- Longest friendship?
- M - Milkshake flavour?
- N - Number of siblings?
- O - One wish?
- P - Person who called me last?
- Q - Question your always asked?
- R - Reason to smile?
- S - Song i last sung?
- T - Time you woke up?
- U - Umbrella colour?
- V - Very best friend?
- W - Which celebrity i’d marry?
- X - X rays i had?
- Y - Your last time you cried?
- Z - Zodiac sign?
September starts today, which makes me so happy because autumn is my favourite season. It’s just when I’m happiest. I love the weather cooling down, starting a new term, moving into a new flat, having quite a quiet term in terms of lessons but actually having a lot of stuff to do. And also, my thing. The only bad thing about autumn is it means winter’s coming, which means my thing starts and I have it til May ish. Great.
Still I’m just going to try and make the most of happy time before sad time starts.
When guys are into me and I don’t feel the same way, I hate actually telling them I don’t feel that way.
So this time I actually tried putting him off so I wouldn’t have to. I tell him something I think will make him hate me…and the reply is “I like you even more now.”
I literally hate Duolingo so bloody much!
I’m reading this book, a piece of travel writing, called “In Search of Kazakhstan” by Christopher Robbins. And I’m only a few chapters in and it’s literally the most interesting thing I have read in ages.
Plus Kazakhstan is kinda a really cool country.